Hi All,

We have found out their is no Doctor that would be able to deal with all our complexities. The Fibromyalgia support group rang and they are at a loss for who could help us.

They also told me that this could all be from enormous stress, which means that our adrenal system were depleted and the so Dylan was susceptible to the Fibromyalgia virus. He has had enormous stress and pressure resulting from other people's behaviour and how we have been treated and we really have had enough. We have had enough of hostile environments, people etc...and we really need to be calm. I told him he can have a complete break from seeing medical professionals and he is so happy about that. I have found out the medical profession are at a loss and don't know how to treat everything we deal with, however God does and when we receive deliverance from this, I will inform them, because this is what we are going for.

I also talked to this man of what I was intending to do and he said these were the right things and will help reduce the fibromyalgia. There is no support group for us because most of them are adult related. I told him he could put my name on the list of offering support, because it comes to me daily information and I am better equipped to deal with all these things.

So now the medical safety net is being taken away from us, many years ago the educational safety net was taken away, we throughly rely on God and Dylan felt happier, I think this is going to be the same here. We will really enter into the Lord's liberty. We will only go and see medical help now only if we are in emergency. Then we will go with all our info etc....

right now we have to be calm, and I have to be calm and we must live in that calmness. May you all have a wonderful day,

love and blessings in the Lord,

Serenity

Serenity:

Sorry i havent been able to reply to your message. Let me ask you something. Could you go to a family counciling place? I know here in Alabama, we have several family counceling places (one of which i work at) where you sit and talk to a councelor about dealing with your emotions, daily activities, daily stressors, health issues, some even talk about religion. I don't know if you have that were you are but that might be somewhere that you can be "calm" and talk about ya'lls feelings and talk one on one with a professional that could help get the stress out of your lives.

I'm not a professional but since i've been working at this counceling place i have realized one thing. And i hope this helps you out. If the parent is stressed about a situation...the child is going to be stressed also. They see you as the protector, teacher, stability. And if you are not in a "stable place" "happy place" "healing place" "possitive frame of mind" that not only effects you but also the child.

**Gosh those stress management classes really did work** For my job we had to do 2 weeks of training and one of the classes was stress management class. They suggest if you feel as if you are stressed. Go in a room, close your eyes and feel every muscle everything in your body and concentrate on your breathing and calm down that way. Because "when you're not in a good state of mind the people around you are not in a good state of mind" Also, know that you can be the best person that follows God and put everything in your life in his hands but still have doubts and stress out about things that you have put it his hands. You're only human when you stress out about things. Just realize that what you do can and will do also effects Dylan. So make sure you are in a stable and health state of mind every morning and like i say Greet the day with a smile...and realize that God is not going to give you something that you and He cant handle together. He knows what you are going threw and He knows that you are fully giving Dylan and his situation over to Him, but you have to FULLY give Dylan to God. And know that things may or may not work out the way you want them to work out, but whatever does happen, it was already planned out a long time ago. And only God knows what is going to happen to us.

I hope this helped. Keep me updated.

Hi Robyn,

Thankyou for your caring post and trying to be there for us. However problems began when I tried to access counselling,medical help, it has been a nightmare. U C the counsellor can not even imagine what it can be possibly like, people are at a loss on how to help. We were suppose to get counselling, instead we got bullied, manipulated, intimidated etc, we were betrayed by a doctor...Yes it would be nice to be calm and to keep calm, however it is hard for me to do so when the medical profession have been abusing us (passively)...We are stressed because of our disabilities and we are stressed because the local medical profession have been a hinderance not a help...U can not possibly imagine that awful experience we had on Monday.

The problem is to find someone that understands the complexity of the situation and have found out, they don't understand and there is not one that can deal with what we have. U know we have a wonderful counsellor, the Holy Spirit, we will heal because the bullies have been taken out of our life and the Lord will show me what to do. Have a female Pastor coming Friday...I am walking free of the secular community, I am taping into Christian resources...however I really feel now I am getting on top of things...and now I understand everything that has been happening for us I wonder even if I need that Pastor to come.

I have also learnt about stress management, meditation, self help path, tai chi, breathing, running, areobics, massage, herbal teas, herb therapy, bowen, reiki, qui energy, accupressure, cognitive therapy and every possible therapy u could imagine...the thing I found far superior than anything else, is God,Jesus, Holy Spirit....

I have also found it really hard to follow the path that the Lord has for Dylan and I and a book came and explained things to me, about how the Lord seperates his Holy Priests and these people will be given particularly challenging lives and will have to go through some very difficult situations....however the Lord will always be there....

love and blessings in the Lord,

Serenity

Hello Serenity, I haven't been on line in a long time, I just read yourposting about Dylan.First of all Dylan is a strong young man to have to go through the things he have went through. Keep that positive attitude and keep trusting in the Lord. In prayer today the Holy Spirit gave me "can you trust Him" He reminded me of the woman who was vexed with demons and how she heard that Jesus was in town, she heard the wonderful things he had done, By her faith God delivered her. You see I said heard see we have experience and(tried) God for ourself and seen the things he has done and is doing in ourlife. So if this woman can trust Him and believe Him without ever seeing his work, she went by the things that she heard How much more God wouldn't do for us if we trust Him.
Father in the Name of Jesus, we thank you for today, for this is a day we have never seen nor experience. Forgive us for our sin blot out our transgessing and remember our sins no more, God I ask for you to touch every vessel every bone in Dylan body God I ask that you touch Dylan right where he's is.Touch him from the top of his head down to his feet. God I ask that you heal his body, God I know that you can do anything but fail. You said ask anything in your son name it shall be given, in earth as it is in heaven. God we thank you in advance for healing Dylan and we will be so careful to give you praise. amen

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Amen Blessedtee Amen,

thankyou for your encouragement, that is exactly it, one word heard (I receive definitely chills and the spirit lept within)...yes I belief because I have heard, read and experienced God in our lives...however the problem is we have not been heard. Ur encouragement strengthens me and what I am about to do...U C if I can learn about all of Dylan's things so can they, the medical profession. I am going to make an appointment with the Head of the Hospital, also am writing to the area Health Service and I am going to request that they now become informed about our condition, that they learn what to do and how to treat us and that they position someone at the hospital that will be an advocate for us, when I can not advocate who will not bully, manipulate or intimidate us. This is the solution for us, since Dylan at times is rushed off to hospital.

I am still holding on that we will be set free from this, however I asked Dylan and he doesn't know if God will heal him from this or he will be set free. His concern is that the pain stops.

Please pray with me and stand in agreement that the medical profession hear us and have their ears and hearts open to us, and provide an adequate service and care for us in Christ Jesus' name. Amen.

love and blessings in the Lord,

Serenity

Hi All,

Have also discovered that Fibromyalgia caused from stress is unfounded, it is because of our sensory problem that Dylan was susceptible when he got sick in November.

I am now feeling Holy Spirit boldness as I prepare to battle several Goliaths in my life...I know that David was the victor and so will we because we have the Lord on our side. I am also glad for this site, to aired what needed to be aired and to ask for prayers and support from my Brother's and sister's in Christ.

love and blessings in the Lord,

Serenity

Hi Blesstee,

I am sorry I said in a reply to John that it was blessedgal who wrote about trust in the Lord, I do apologise becoming mixed with the different blesseds

This word heard has stuck in my mind. The other day I felt the Lord heard me and has answered all our prayers in this matter. Scripture has revealed to me that he has heard. Dylan opened the bible the other day to Psalm 118....medical people have pulled out or not wanting to get involved and I can see the Lord working. Today Dylan let me touch his muscles so at least I could massage them and release the tightness.

Thankyou once again for delivering this message to me...

love and blessings in the Lord,

Serenity