Hi, please pray for me to break free from a wrong relationship; it is stiffling my spiritual walk and negatively affecting other people.

It sounds like you may have some maturity or be somewhat "in tune" because you realize that you are in a bad situation but real maturity & being "in tune" consists of us seeking the will of God & obeying it before we get into them. I have no details so I don't know if you are married yet or just a bf/gf situation; if you are married it is against some biblical precepts to seek a divorce (compare 1 Cor 7:10-16) so it may be too late so to speak. All I know is God told me that He puts us in different circumstances for a reason - the primary one is for us to be conformed to the image of Christ. Some situations are intolerable for us but God asks us to endure untill the end (Rev 2:10,17,26). I will pray for you that you grow in communion with God so as to be able to hear His voice of guidance in your situation. When you hear it - do your best to obey, regardless if that is what you want to do or not.

Prayers are with you, i have been in the same position in the recent past and broke free, and now i am in a better position to see my part in the whole mess! I pray that God gives you strength and courage to do what is right for you in your walk. Hugs debbie

Hi Rashida, am Doreen and I notice two things: U R definately a Ugandan and Rashida sounds ammm... moslem? am I right?? Well it's good to know that you are here to look for help. God is with you by all means. Many people including me, face your problem and never come out to face it by talking about it. You talking about it makes things a little easier - U cease habouring a pain for some time and indeed the pain goes away when people respond to your SOS cry. The good Lord already knows it all. Yours is to pray about it without ceasing by the fact that you have realised your mistake. I will be with you in prayer and I trust that God will help you overcome the burden that you are going thru. May He also send your way, a good, trustworthy and loving person. God bless you abundantly.

Hi Rashida been in prayers with you since you sent a post regarding a wrong relationship years ago. I hope your prayers wer answered and you broke free and further hope you got a better person who respects and cares about you. none of us is whole perfect but my prayer is a long as you have happiness now. Keep us updated and God bless you.

Rashida, sometimes its just a part of life to go through something so that you can come out stronger. If there is a single way to come closer to Christ, it is when you remember that the relationship between God and yourself will never strain, never have up and downs, and will never end unless you choose to do so. A human being can never boast that feat. When we glow from having the lord within us, everyone is affected positively.

I have been where you are at my sister so many times and it seems as if you are paralyzed in your relationship with Christ because you are so focused on being right. I encourage you to earnestly pray to God and let him know how you are feeling and bodly go before the throne of grace and make your request known. Don't try anymore to end that relationship, because if it is truly a hinderance to you and your loved ones surrounding you God will remove him, he will do your dirty work. Here is the key , don't get back into the same mess once you are free becuase it is 7x's harder. Be blessed my sister in Christ, take it from someone that has been there more than my fingers and toes can count. love you!!!

I am experiencing this same issue. We intended to use the module for creating 'friend' and 'follower' relationships. We set up a one-way relationship called 'follower'. I have two sample users, Ed Engineer and Deanna Drummer. I had 'Ed Engineer' click the link to become 'Deanna Drummers' follower. I would expect that to read as "You to them" in Ed's relationships page and "Them to you" on Deanna's relationships page, but the opposite is true. Also, if the relationship is only a one way relationship without required approval, shouldn't it be true that only the person who created it would have access to delete it? Instead, Deanna also sees a 'remove' link. See attached screen shot showing both users' relationship lists.
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